How much ?

How much should one sacrifice ? How does one decide enough is enough ? How does one know that the point has arrived when he has to speak up, when he has to stop thinking about others' feelings and tell them what he really thinks ? Why should one be always the one who compromises to keep things in control ?

What is the point where you stop acting maturely for the sake of the integrity of the group ? How much tolerance must one have ? Obviously, having no tolerance is not good. But is having too much tolerance a weakness too ? Or is it one's strength ? How does one decide that the breaking point has arrived, the threshold has been crossed ? What should be done when you face such a situation ?

Ankur.